I’ll always remember my first solo adventure abroad. Just me, 19 years old, an overstuffed backpack, and a racing heart as I stepped onto that international flight alone. I felt terrified—yet completely alive.
Today, I’m 30 and based in the heart of New York City. Since that first leap, I’ve wandered through Amsterdam’s canals, gotten wonderfully lost in Tokyo’s alleys, explored Machu Picchu in the rain, and toasted sunsets with nothing but my journal and a glass of wine. I’ve traveled alone, but I’ve never felt lonely.
If you’re wondering whether solo travel is for you, here’s what I wish someone had told me back then:
Solo doesn’t mean simple—but it can absolutely mean luxurious, empowering, and unforgettable.
The Truth About My First Solo Trip
Let’s get real: my first solo trip was far from glamorous. I stayed in noisy hostels, clutched my valuables in crowded train stations, and cried more than once from exhaustion and confusion.
But those challenges taught me something priceless. I learned to trust myself, listen to my instincts, and enjoy my own company in ways I’d never experienced. That trip cracked me open—and I never looked back.
Evolving from Backpacker to Boutique: How I Travel Solo Now

For years, solo travel meant hostels, night buses, and counting every penny. But as my career grew, so did my travel style.
Now, I don’t just travel—I curate my solo experiences. I seek out:
- Boutique hotels with breakfast balconies
- Spa days overlooking city skylines
- Direct flights and indulgent layovers
- Guided tours designed for solo women travelers
It’s not about being fancy for the sake of it. It’s about feeling safe, confident, and taken care of—even when I’m thousands of miles from home.
Is It Safe to Travel Alone as a Woman?
I hear this question all the time: “Is solo female travel safe?”
The short answer? Yes—when you prepare smartly.
I don’t take reckless risks. I research destinations, plan ahead, and trust my intuition. But I also refuse to let fear shrink my world. Women deserve to explore every corner of this planet on their own terms.
With the right tools and mindset, solo travel becomes not just safe—but deeply empowering.
Start Small, Start Smart—Just Start
You don’t need a passport or a five-star ticket to begin. Maybe it’s a weekend in Miami, a quiet staycation in your city, or a solo brunch followed by a slow walk through your favorite museum.
What matters is this: you’re choosing yourself. You’re making space for your own story.
And if you’re ready to explore luxury solo travel as a woman, I’m here to help you do it boldly.
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Because solo doesn’t mean simple. It means powerful. It means beautiful. It means freedom—on your terms.
With wanderlove,
Felicia – The Luxe Soloist
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